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I prefer to live my life laughing until almost peeing my pants.

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Apr 08
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I hate the moment when I realize I have to wash my hair in the morning. Gross, I know, but true.

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& lift up your head
I need you to hold me
Because you’ve been away for so long
And lift up your head
The night is long and lonely
And nothing is the same when you’re gone.
— O Sunrise - Mike Hires
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Eight Tips for Making Yourself Likable:

  1. Smile.
  2. Be easily impressed, entertained, and interested.
  3. Have a friendly, open, engaged demeanor.
  4. Remember trait transfer.
    1. In “trait transfer,” whatever you say about other people influences how people see you. If you describe a co-worker as brilliant and charismatic, your acquaintance will tend to associate you with those qualities. Conversely, if you describe a co-worker as arrogant and obnoxious, those traits will stick to you. So watch what you say.
  5. Laugh at yourself.
  6. Radiate energy and good humor.
  7. Show your liking for another person.
  8. Try to remember the person’s name!

Studies suggest that we decide how close a relationship we’ll have with a new acquaintance within the first ten minutes of meeting that person, and that in evaluating people, we weigh early information more heavily than information acquired later. So make a big effort to be openly friendly the first time you meet someone.

Full article: here.

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The Limerence Of One

If it was easy, everyone would do it. Which is why it’s up to you.

Apr 07
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Such a great movie! The single mother bond I share with Amy Adams’s character, Rose, may be a little biased, but I’m here to order you to see it! Sunshine Cleaning

Such a great movie! The single mother bond I share with Amy Adams’s character, Rose, may be a little biased, but I’m here to order you to see it! Sunshine Cleaning

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The Side Of A Bullet

I made loneliness a home. Your ghost moved in next door. You should come get your stuff.

via I Wrote This For You

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& when my frequency is unclear
And statics buzzing in your ears
Tune your heart, tune your heart
Till you hear who we are
Let it take us to the start.
— Matt Hires - You Are The One
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You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.
— Siddhārtha Gautama (via justbesplendid) (via present) (via justlia)
Apr 06
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With what pleasure do we look upon a family, through the whole of which reign mutual love and esteem, where the parents and children are companions for one another, without any other difference than what is made by respectful affection on the one side, and kind indulgence on the other; where freedom and fondness, mutual raillery and mutual kindness, shew that no opposition of interest divides the brothers, nor any rivalship of favours sets the sisters at variance, and where everything presents us with the idea of peace, cheerfulness, harmony, and contentment?
— Adam Smith via Gretchen Rubin
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The Hands Upon You

Small people only want one thing from you: Someone else to be as small as they are.

Stay big.

via I Wrote This For You

Apr 05
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Adopt the pace of nature: her secret is patience.
— Ralph Waldo Emerson
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21. Gratitude

a. Keep a journal, and each night, make a list of three things that you are thankful for in life
b. Every day, thank someone for something that you might otherwise take for granted (e.g., thanking the janitor who cleans your hallways).
c. Keep a record of the number of times you use the words “thank you” in a day. Over the course of the first week, try to double the number of times that you say the words.

Read more tips and the full article here.